The final component of transformation is wishing for the absolute best for those around you. It’s easy to wish for good things for your friends and family and the people you like. It’s a little harder to wish that for those who you feel have hurt you or just in general irritate you. But this is a really important part of transforming your life. 

What you put out into the world comes back to you, positive or negative. A phrase we’ve all heard is do unto others as you would have done to you. We’ve also all heard of karma. These words are talking about the exchange of energy that naturally happens in the universe. 

As such, wishing for the absolute best for everyone in your life will bring that back to you. 

This is similar to practicing gratitude in that you may not initially feel that you want the best for someone who has hurt you, but as you keep wishing for the best for them with words and thoughts, you will eventually feel it. You begin to see that their living their best life helps you to live your best life. 

If it’s easier, start with people you don’t know and happen to encounter throughout your day. The bus driver, the checkout person, the flight attendant or server at your local restaurant. Send them happy thoughts and wishes for their best life. Then work your way up to more difficult people you encounter. The person who cuts you off in traffic, the person on the street that bumps into you. Eventually move onto those more challenging people in your life that you know personally. Once you do this you will notice a positive shift in attitude in yourself and maybe even the other person as well.

Imagine a world in which everyone is living their absolute best life. They are doing what they love, living without lack and are truly happy. I know it’s idealistic, ridiculous even, but thinking of a world like this makes me happy and hopeful. 

There is a lot going on in the world right now. It can only benefit by putting as much positive energy out there as possible. I think you’ll be amazed by how much your own life changes by doing this. Add to this daily gratitude and trusting yourself and the universe to make the decisions that are best for you and there really are no limits to what you can do with your life.